Mole and Movement is a three-day gathering devoted to the sacred erotic as an ancestral source of healing, pleasure, creativity, and embodied knowing. This retreat brings together Indigenous foodways and somatic movement as practices of remembrance, intimacy, and restoration.
The sacred erotic is understood here as life force. As sensation. As presence. As the body’s capacity to feel, connect, and respond with aliveness.
At the heart of the weekend is mole, an Indigenous, ancestral foodway held by women through generations as ceremony, responsibility, and relationship. Mole is not simply a recipe. It is history, region, labor, memory, and matriarchal knowledge.
Chef Silvana Salcido Esparza will guide participants through the history, cultural significance, and regional diversity of mole. She will prepare mole within the ceremonial container of the retreat while holding what is not meant to be taught. This is an intentional act of cultural protection. Some knowledge remains with the women and lineages who carry it.
Participants will not be taught to reproduce the mole itself. Instead, they are invited to witness the process with respect and to participate in learning how mole can be an erotic teacher. Together, participants will explore how mole is used, adapted, and honored through dishes and tastings that reflect regional and creative expressions, including dessert mole, guava mole, fig mole, tamarind mole, hibiscus mole, poblano mole, and other regional forms.
This learning is offered in reciprocity rather than extraction. Participants are invited to arrive as guests, not consumers, and to engage with humility, patience, and respect for Indigenous women who hold mole as sacred knowledge.
Alongside the kitchen work, somatic movement sessions will guide participants into the sacred erotic intelligence of the body. Movement will be facilitated by Kellie Ryan, Certified Sexuality Educator and somatic practitioner, whose work centers embodiment, imagination, play, and sensation as pathways to healing. Through movement, breath, and presence, participants will explore the sacred erotic as a force that restores intimacy with self and deepens relational capacity.
Together, food and movement are held as parallel practices. Both require listening. Both invite pleasure rooted in care rather than consumption.
This retreat is held by Certified Sexuality Professionals and grounded in consent, cultural responsibility, and non stigmatizing exploration. The sacred erotic is approached as a source of healing and wholeness, not access or entitlement.
Mole and Movement is open to women across identities and expressions who are willing to enter with respect, curiosity, and relational accountability.
More details coming soon. Space will be limited to 12.


A gentle space to explore your voice through breath, movement, and sound, no performance required, only curiosity.

Slow, mindful movement to open fascia, calm the nervous system, and reconnect breath, voice, and womb.
Our intention is to offer this reateat as an accessible gathering grounded in care, respect, and relational accountability. While this gathering is not offered as a pay-what-you-can retreat, we are committed to setting a price that is fair, transparent, and reflective of the true cost of hosting at Casa Salcido. Pricing will be shared once finalized.
This is a three-day, two-night gathering. All meals are included, and sleeping arrangements are shared in community. Casa Salcido is a lived-in home, and the way we gather reflects values of togetherness, consent, and care. Bedding, linens, and all necessary supplies are provided, and sleeping spaces are arranged with attention to comfort and respect.
For participants traveling more than one hour, arrival the day before the gathering may be possible with prior notice and coordination.
We believe transparency is an essential part of accessibility. The cost of this gathering reflects the real labor and resources required to hold a space with integrity. This includes chef-prepared meals, food and kitchen labor, water, propane, cleaning supplies, waste disposal, preparation of the home, mid-gathering cleaning, and facilitator honorariums. We share this openly so participants understand what it takes to host a gathering rooted in respect, sustainability, and collective responsibility.
Meals are a central part of life at Casa Salcido. Food is offered as ceremony, memory, and nourishment. Meals prepared by Chef Silvana are crafted with intention, creativity, and ancestral knowledge, supporting both body and spirit. Including food and kitchen labor within the shared cost reflects the understanding that nourishment is not an add-on to the gathering, but a core part of the care we offer one another.
Throughout the gathering, we also share simple acts of care, such as assisting with meal preparation, serving, washing dishes, and gentle clean up. At the close of the gathering, guests are asked to gather their linens and tidy their sleeping space so we may close the home together. These acts are not chores. They are expressions of relationship, a way of tending to one another and to the land that holds us. Through shared responsibility, we sustain a gathering rooted in culture, community, nourishment, and love.
All sleeping arrangements for this retreat are shared. We gather in community, and the way we sleep reflects that spirit of togetherness, care, and reciprocity. Casa Salcido has four bedrooms available, along with several additional spaces that can be made comfortable for rest.
All bedding, linens, pillows, and warm coverings will be provided. What matters most is that everyone has a place to land, to rest, and to be held by the space. We will work together to make sure sleeping arrangements honor comfort, consent, and community care.

We want to honor those who move through time like a slow, flowing creek and those who live inside the realities of jobs, travel, and schedules shaped by the colonial construct of time. We also want to honor the facilitators by giving them the space they need to offer the wisdom we are gathering for. This retreat brings many truths into one place, and our agenda is designed to hold all of them with care.
Please consider our time together as ceremony. In ceremony, arrival matters because we are entering a shared vessel of intention. The opening circle is the one moment when we ask everyone to arrive on time. This is where we begin to build trust, take gentle risks, and create the intimacy that helps us feel safe together. Once we begin, think of the agenda as a bowl rather than a clock, something that holds us rather than directs us.
The flow of the retreat will move like the tide. There is shape and rhythm, and there is also space to breathe, pause, and listen. Meals will be served at set times because food preparation and serving require coordination, labor, and attention to safety. All other activities are invitations, not obligations. If you need rest or solitude, we encourage you to honor that need and receive whatever is calling you in the moment.
We have intentionally created spaciousness between sessions so we are not moving from one thing to the next without time to integrate. These pauses are for digestion of body and spirit. Facilitators will also respond in real time to the needs of the group, so the agenda may shift with the wisdom and energy of the circle. Nothing is fixed.
The retreat will formally close at the scheduled time, though participants are welcome to take their time leaving the space. If you wish to linger in conversation or find a quiet moment before returning to daily life, you are invited to do so. The official hosting will be complete, and the space will remain gentle for your departure.
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Dra. Serina Payan Hazelwood (Dra/She/Ella) is a queer, Indigenous Chicana scholar, educator, and community gatherer. Steward of The Elsewheres, she creates spaces for learning rooted in ceremony, storywork, and embodied practice. She holds a PhD in Sustainability Education and an MA in Interdisciplinary Studies from Prescott College and is currently pursuing a second master’s in Regenerative Design. As an AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator, Organizational Provider, and Supervisor in Training, her work bridges professional education with Indigenous and decolonial pedagogies. Living on Kumeyaay lands in Playas de Rosarito, she teaches from a core truth: violence to the land is violence to our bodies. Guided by the Nahui Ollin, her work re-animates Chingonisma as a body of knowledge that restores voice, memory, and communal power. Through The Elsewheres, Serina stewards spaces where people remember themselves, practice accountability, and build futures with land, body, and ancestors in right relation.
Serina will guide participants through somatic grounding, movement, and voice practices that reconnect the tongue, womb, and fascia as sites of remembering. She will offer teachings on Malinche as archetype, experiential work on embodied voice and Chingonisma, and a music circle that invites collective sound as medicine. Her facilitation centers ceremony, intimacy, and embodied truth.
Kellie Ryan (she/her) is a Certified Sexuality Educator, somatic practitioner, and Licensed Massage Therapist whose work centers the body as a source of wisdom, pleasure, and truth. With nearly two decades of experience in embodied practice, Kellie creates spaces where people can explore sexuality, intimacy, and self expression without shame, performance, or stigma.
Kellie’s approach is grounded in the belief that the body holds knowledge that cannot be accessed through cognition alone. Through movement, breath, imagination, and mindful presence, she supports people in reconnecting with their erotic intelligence as a healing force that strengthens intimacy with self and others. Her work invites curiosity, play, and gentleness, allowing participants to meet themselves with honesty and care.
As an AASECT Certified Sexuality Educator, Kellie is committed to culturally responsible, consent based, and non stigmatizing sexual education. She works with individuals, groups, and professionals, supporting exploration around pleasure, desire, changing bodies, identity, and relational patterns. Her facilitation style is warm, irreverent, and deeply relational, grounded in the understanding that liberation and laughter often travel together.
Kellie is queer, poly, and kink affirming, and she brings a clear ethical framework to her work that prioritizes agency, embodied consent, and respect for complexity. She does not position herself as the source of transformation, but as a skilled witness and guide, trusting each person’s body to lead its own unfolding.
In Mole and Movement, Kellie facilitates somatic movement sessions that invite participants into the sacred erotic through sensation, breath, and presence. Her offerings support participants in restoring intimacy with their bodies, expanding relational capacity, and remembering pleasure as a source of resilience, creativity, and connection.
Chef Silvana Salcido Esparza (Chef/She/Doña) is an award-winning chef, visionary, and cultural warrior whose work has redefined Mexican cuisine in the United States. Born into a family of bakers with an 800-year legacy, she blends ancestral traditions with fearless creativity and a lifelong commitment to justice. After studying at the Scottsdale Culinary Institute, she traveled across Mexico learning from traditional cooks, a journey that shaped her mission to reclaim and elevate Mexican gastronomy as art, history, and resistance. Founder of the renowned Barrio Café in Phoenix and its sister projects, Chef Silvana has earned nine James Beard nominations while centering food as activism. She created Taller de Cocina Mexicana in Playas de Rosarito, a free culinary program teaching youth ancestral and contemporary cooking as pathways to empowerment. Her book, La Hija de La Chingada: Chronicles of a Mexican Chef, is available in Spanish and English. Through flavor, art, and radical love, she continues to protect culture and nourish her communities today.
Chef Silvana will nourish the circle through meals prepared with ancestral intention, creativity, and deep cultural memory. Her food is ceremony, crafted to honor the wisdom of the tongue and the generative power of the womb. Through her artistry and presence, participants will experience nourishment as teaching, as healing, and as a form of love that sustains both body and spirit. Her meals invite guests to slow down, savor, and remember the lineage carried through flavor, texture, and care.A seasoned chef and baker with a rich background in the restaurant industry, she has worked in many fine dining establishments, including the Ritz Carlton in 2017. As of 2023, Jessenia has transitioned to the role of an educator. Currently shaping young minds at a Seattle, WA title one school, she has become a beacon of light and support for both students and staff, pushing the boundaries of culinary education and increasing opportunity for all students. Her journey reflects not only her personal success but a commitment to being a safe space for others.
Passionate about giving back to the migrant communities similar to those who helped raise her, Jessenia has realized a career milestone as a culinary instructor. Her goal is to empower Latinx and other students of color coming from disadvantaged backgrounds and showing them a mirror of possibility and potential. Jessenia’s story is one of triumph, resilience, and the embodiment of breaking barriers.
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